In India, Sun is said to be the manifested living God who has given life various forms and sustains it. There is an age old practice of worshipping this God at both rising and setting times in most austere way, popularly known as Chhath Puja. Bihar. Undoubtedly one of the strongest identities of this land today is acutely divided society on the lines of various castes and sub-castes. Till couple of decades ago there were mass murders carried out by armed extreme caste based groups against each other.

Yet, perhaps the oldest festival in the world, Chhath Puja sees every member of this society behaving in unison for a good cause.

No one is bothered about caste or even religion before offering services to clean the roads or prepare ghats ( sitting place on the side of water body) or carry heavy baskets filled with seasonal fruits and deliciously baked offerings for Sun God. The Prasad collection as blessings from those observing the fast is a sight to be seen to believe that caste or religion doesn’t exist on this day in this society. Everyone is happy today, as even the most distraught receive a new lease of hope due to Prasad received after this extremely austere worship of a God you can see with your own eyes. The faith of fulfilment of wishes seems to have been working well for this festival as it is said to be practiced since pre-Vedic times. Lord Rama and Sita had observed these fasts after returning on Deepawali before taking over the reins of the state, a manner of purifying themselves and getting ready for the big task ahead. Same festival was observed by Pandavas and Draupadi after Mahabharat war before taking over the reins of the kingdom. Along with many Sun worshippers in Bihar and other parts of the country and now various cities of the world, I am observing these fasts this year. First day is a ‘normal’ fasting called Nahaye-Khaye (Purifying and Eating). On this day one sumptuous meal is prepared in purest, most hygienic manner. Freshly pounded grains, fresh green vegetables, cold pressed oil etc are used for meal preparation in a newly erected fire place. After this day of preparatory fasting of just one meal during the day, the austerities intensify over next 60-65 hours.

Since that meal, one goes without water and food till next evening’s celebrations called Kharna. A standard diet of Kheer (rice cooked in milk and jiggery) and roti is prepared in every house and friends and families visit those fasting who break for this meal and then to resume. The next drop of water comes for them after around 40 hours! Meanwhile, they actively work and do lots of cooking of thekua (delicious sweet dish made of flour, ghee and jiggery) for distribution to anyone who asks for it at the end of the festival. Pause and imagine yourself going through these austerities and you can perhaps understand the source of energy in the air which brings every member of the society together. When individuals make personal sacrifices and selflessly offer their services to the needy, the society amalgamates and becomes one. Perhaps a blueprint for all of us to live in harmony – by acting and praying for the poor and needy in the society.

“May your victimhood mindset gets cleaned away!” is my greeting to me and my loved ones this Diwali. We clean up our houses, get rid of old unnecessary stuff and buy new utility items for ourselves and good gifts for friends, wrap it up with sweets and consume. This is how we have been celebrating Diwali all these years. Then, sitting in my ‘just now’ inaugurated office, I saw trending #IndiaWaliDiwali and got thinking for its meaning in personal life.

Getting rid of the mental cobwebs of “I am a victim of ….” is perhaps the best way to mark the celebrations this year.

Great saints of India have repeatedly declared “जन्तूनां नरजन्म दुर्लभं” i.e. of all births that of a human being is rare to obtain. Even one who is bereft of existence of soul can appreciate that humans are top of the food-chain and really the lucky ones to live on this planet. Yet we love to idle our time away contemplating and whining about how wrong things have happened to ‘poor me’. No one is denying the ills happening in the world due to greed, anger and hate, and they should be stopped. Yet, in personal live, living with the victim mindset doesn’t get one anywhere. One needs to realize the rarity of human birth and get going to improve the situation. We rather keep living on with complexities of things we can’t change like my skin colour/ height/ place of birth/ family of birth etc are causing all the grief in my life. “उद्धरेत् आत्मना आत्मानं” i.e. one needs to lift oneself by one’s own efforts. So, this Diwali, I wish you “Count your many blessings Lord has done” and follow the age-old Indian dictum of “उत्तिष्ठत जाग्रत प्राप्य वरान्निबोधत”, well, I leave it to you to search the meaning of this last one and read upon. Happy Diwali! #IndiaWaliDiwali